{"id":436,"date":"2018-01-31T09:17:07","date_gmt":"2018-01-31T15:17:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peanutmark.com\/?p=436"},"modified":"2018-02-03T23:40:10","modified_gmt":"2018-02-04T05:40:10","slug":"a-woman-in-transition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.peanutmark.com\/?p=436","title":{"rendered":"A Woman in Transition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"434\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.peanutmark.com\/?attachment_id=434\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?fit=1331%2C324&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1331,324\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"IMG_5682\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?fit=1024%2C249&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-434\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?resize=493%2C120&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"493\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?resize=300%2C73&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?resize=768%2C187&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?resize=1024%2C249&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.peanutmark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_5682.jpg?w=1331&amp;ssl=1 1331w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 493px) 100vw, 493px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been busy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">You wouldn\u2019t necessarily know it by looking at me, because all the activity has been in my head, but trust me. I\u2019ve been busy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And, I\u2019ve had quite a time of it, too \u2026 plotting and creating and worrying and dreaming and drawing and writing and conversing and arguing and\u2026 and&#8230; and&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">&#8230;and, I am exhausted, but happy, and ready to share.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">So, without further delay, here\u2019s what I\u2019ve been up to:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1) I developed and started handcrafting sterling silver necklaces called <em>I AMuleTs.<\/em> The idea for these pieces started poking at my brain almost a year ago when I was repeatedly annoyed by the multiple necklace chains I wore for good luck and positive energy; they wouldn\u2019t stop tangling together.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ok \u2013 stop it. I can already hear you saying \u201cPositive energy? That\u2019s kinda <em>woo<\/em> for a <em>DOCTOR<\/em>, isn\u2019t it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Well, I suppose it could fall into a category of \u201cwoo\u201d, but if you know me, or have ever been under my care, you\u2019ve heard me say that western medicine doesn\u2019t have all the answers, and that the road to health and wellness differs for everyone. What I might not have shared, however, is my belief that being healthy is an active endeavor that has to start at your core. Setting positive intentions for myself is one way that I work to stay healthy every day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Anyway\u2026 back to my story\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I mused for a while on one of my more tangly necklaces (an evil eye charm that I found on vacation years ago) by repeatedly drawing evil eyes on napkins and paper scraps. After a while, I started substituting eyes in place of the letter \u201ci\u201d in words. I don\u2019t know why, it just started happening, and it made me laugh every time I did it. This led to new doodles of the lowercase letter i with an eye in place of the dot, and THAT design tumbled over and over in my head until one day the design for I AMuleTs stormed into my brain. <em>WHAT IF<\/em> I took my eye-I doodle and put it at the start of an affirmation, I AM ________? <em>AND<\/em>, what if I combined <em>THAT<\/em> eye-I affirmation with a gemstone of similar meaning for extra oomph and energy? The idea didn\u2019t completely make sense to my brain at the beginning, but my heart knew I was onto something, a something I wanted to explore and possibly create.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, with my heart\u2019s urging, my brain was off to the races. I checked out books on stones and crystals, and researched the healing properties of different gems. I took classes on metal stamping techniques and figured out how to turn my doodle into a workable and legible stamp. Finally, I pulled out my jeweler tools from the closet (I\u2019ve made jewelry on and off for over 25 years) and played with my long-neglected treasure trove of findings and wire.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I have been the happiest I\u2019ve been for \u2026 a long time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>To support my new expanding I AMuleT adventure, I undertook a few other things, too\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>2) I started a business: Melissa C Mark, LLC. My focus is currently on growing I AMuleTs, but with my name as the company title, I\u2019m not limited to only making necklaces; I can go in any creative direction I choose. Now, I\u2019ll admit, I\u2019m not a business person by trade, and I have no experience in this kind of entrepreneurship. But, so what? My business inexperience is only a liability if I say it is, and I\u2019m not.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>3) I opened an <a href=\"http:\/\/melissacmark.etsy.com\">Etsy store<\/a>! Right now I\u2019m only offering the I AMuleTs I\u2019ve already told you about, but I have other ideas rolling around in my head\u2026 so stay tuned!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>4) I designed the website <a href=\"http:\/\/melissacmark.com\">melissacmark.com<\/a> as a landing page for links to my current creative endeavors: this blog, an <a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/melissacmark\">Instagram page<\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/explore\/tags\/melissasdailyview\/\">#melissasdailyview<\/a>), and my <a href=\"http:\/\/melissacmark.etsy.com\">Etsy store<\/a>. Bookmark <a href=\"http:\/\/melissacmark.com\">the site<\/a> and check in from time to time to see what I\u2019m up to; I promise it\u2019ll be something!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It all feels like such a whirlwind adventure, but if I\u2019m honest, it\u2019s taken a while; I started on this road in March 2017. There\u2019s been so much to learn and do that the time has truly flown by. I\u2019m sure that there\u2019ll be a learning curve plateau in my future that will force me to slow down, but for now, my enthusiasm, energy, and crazy brain are on overdrive, and going strong.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the backstory to where I am right now\u2026 a woman in transition. I think it&#8217;s a good place to be at the start of the new year, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Takeaway:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lifelong learning is essential for personal growth, positive change, and (I would argue) happiness.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any adventure can be yours if you choose it.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; I\u2019ve been busy. &nbsp; You wouldn\u2019t necessarily know it by looking at me, because all the activity has been in my head, but trust me. I\u2019ve been busy. &nbsp; And, I\u2019ve had quite a time of it, too \u2026 plotting and creating and worrying and dreaming and drawing and writing and conversing and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-random-subjects"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6ZedX-72","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":44,"url":"https:\/\/www.peanutmark.com\/?p=44","url_meta":{"origin":436,"position":0},"title":"Hankscraft","author":"Melissa","date":"November 30, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"I have a not-so-secret obsession. 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